TDW 1165 - YouTube Trolls : Dealing with Haters and Negativity

0:07 welcome everyone Adam the woo here that

0:07 is an airplane which coincidentally is

0:09 very kind of like ironic don't you think

0:12 it's like

0:14 rain on your wedding it's my second

0:16 channel daily Vlog channel it's the

0:18 daily woo are those are those

0:22 patunas and I showed the plane there at

0:24 the intro of the Vlog because yesterday

0:27 I flew in from Atlanta I am back in

0:29 Orange County

0:31 California back to my home where last

0:34 night I went home and I slept

0:37 well how's everyone doing today I have

0:40 something on my mind that really has

0:41 been bothering me for a

0:44 while haters trolls negative comments

0:48 people who have been following me either

0:51 for a short time or a long

0:54 time and their hateful negative

0:58 nonpositive comments

1:00 when I started doing videos a long time

1:02 ago I didn't really have a certain type

1:05 of theme that I was going to be doing I

1:07 called my videos video adventures

1:09 basically what that means is I go out I

1:13 film things I get off the

1:15 couch I get out of the house and I go

1:18 roam the country seeing wonderful things

1:22 whether that be theme parks whether that

1:24 be movie locations whether that be

1:26 abandoned locations whether that be

1:28 fantastic Road side attractions now

1:31 certain of those types of videos are

1:34 more popular than others the Roadside

1:37 Attraction videos I was actually just

1:39 talking with my friend Jacob the carpet

1:41 bagger who I hung out with he was in

1:43 yesterday's Vlog we were talking about

1:46 how roadside attractions the

1:48 popularity in the grand scheme of things

1:50 is not as great as let's say theme parks

1:53 or movie locations or abandoned videos

1:57 and stuff like that it's a very like

1:58 kind of like a smaller group a smaller

2:00 niche of people that are into that kind

2:02 of stuff but I am a fan of everything I

2:05 a fan of leaving the house getting out

2:07 of the house going out into the world

2:09 meeting people doing things putting some

2:13 positivity and goodness into the

2:16 universe and the

2:18 world and lately it has become very

2:21 difficult for me to stay the course in

2:24 that Avenue because of hateful people

2:28 people that are not on the same w length

2:30 who feel like they must actually leave

2:34 very hateful comments either on my

2:37 YouTube page or Facebook or Twitter any

2:39 of those social media Pages people that

2:42 obviously have something of an issue

2:45 with what I do they do not agree with a

2:47 certain video that I have done because I

2:50 did not do the video that they wanted me

2:52 to do and it is very disheartening there

2:55 was a point in my life when I thought

2:58 when I assumed

3:00 when I had a hope that you could please

3:03 everyone and I've talked about this in

3:06 the past that you cannot please everyone

3:08 that is a fact you cannot please

3:11 everyone there was a point when I was

3:14 starting these videos that I would get

3:16 one thumbs down two thumbs down it would

3:18 bother me it would like as I would lay

3:20 in bed I would say who would dislike

3:23 this video now the realization has

3:26 happened that there are a lot of people

3:28 who do not like

3:30 certain videos some people do not like

3:33 movie locations some people do not like

3:35 abandoned locations some people do not

3:38 like Walt Disney World Disneyland some

3:41 people do not like Universal Studios

3:43 some people do not like knottsberry Farm

3:46 or whatever else some people do not like

3:48 conventions Dragon conon ComicCon VidCon

3:51 whatever it is that I'm going out in

3:54 doing some people have an issue with it

3:59 and I can't I

4:00 guess what is the

4:02 solution to not getting hateful comments

4:06 do you block people do you block

4:08 everyone who is not 100% On Your Side

4:11 how do you separate constructive

4:14 criticism from hate how do you separate

4:18 constructive

4:20 criticism from someone who's just trying

4:23 to give you an honest opinion and

4:25 actually wants the best of you and that

4:27 brings me to the next point it

4:29 definitely makes me feel very grateful

4:32 and humbled to have the following that I

4:35 have that this whole circle of goodness

4:38 thing that has actually festooned itself

4:41 upon us it's so great to have so many

4:44 supporters Kindred Spirits those that

4:47 chime down positive kind words on a

4:50 daily basis but it's also very

4:53 interesting because a lot of the

4:55 comments on this will probably be do not

4:57 let the haters SL trolls

5:00 slash those who have reversed their

5:02 opinion of you Adam to overwhelm your

5:04 life don't let it bother you but it's

5:08 very difficult to do that because let's

5:10 say you walked out of the house every

5:12 morning let's say this was your garage

5:14 or this was your house and you pulled

5:16 your car in here and as you got out a

5:19 stranger that you had never met that had

5:22 been watching you from afar walked down

5:25 the alley and saw you walk out of the

5:26 garage and said hey

5:28 you I didn't like what you did today at

5:31 work when you were at work doing your

5:34 thing I was watching you and I didn't

5:36 really did not like the way that you did

5:38 that or what if that same person the

5:40 next day walked by and said hey you

5:43 getting out of your car out of your

5:44 garage going into your house I've been

5:46 watching what you're doing and I think

5:48 you're kind of ugly you're a little bit

5:51 overweight you're a little bit of a

5:54 person that I really do not find

5:58 attractive either

6:00 physically mentally or you said

6:03 something today that bothered me would

6:07 it be easy for you to brush that off

6:09 would that be something that you could

6:11 actually brush off especially when it

6:14 happened 20 30 40 50 times a day so that

6:20 is a problem I am dealing with now I

6:22 know they say Do not feed the trolls I'm

6:24 not pinpointing any particular one

6:26 person out there or two people or 10

6:29 people or 50 people that are out there

6:32 it is a conglomerate group and it's not

6:36 going to go away just even the fact that

6:39 I am even

6:40 bringing this subject up is not going to

6:42 change anything I just had it on my mind

6:46 it's really been bothering me there are

6:48 a lot of people who are unhappy about a

6:52 lot of things that I do and it's very

6:54 interesting too because I do not talk

6:57 about religion I do not talk about sex I

7:00 do not talk about politics I keep

7:02 everything above the belt super positive

7:06 it's all about going out having fun

7:09 having a good time staying active

7:12 bringing people into my world showing

7:14 them things that I

7:16 enjoy and some people cannot just accept

7:19 that in fact a lot of people well a

7:22 portion of those people who cannot

7:24 accept that are watching this right now

7:25 and they're going to thumbs this video

7:26 down they're probably going to chime in

7:28 with some negative comments or are going

7:29 to Stew over it so I have an invite to

7:32 you which I have thrown out in the past

7:35 if you do not agree with what I am doing

7:38 if you do not like a certain type of

7:41 video a certain Avenue or the

7:43 progression of where I am going with

7:46 these videos feel free to just say

7:49 goodbye there's the door leave through

7:52 the door it is a swinging door you can

7:54 come in you can come out the door is not

7:57 locked you can watch these videos you

7:59 can choose not to watch these videos the

8:01 choice is yours just like the choice for

8:04 me to go out and film whatever I want to

8:06 film is mine it's all about choices

8:09 there are a million other people on

8:12 YouTube doing the types of videos that

8:14 you want to see I am going to do all

8:17 types of videos I'm going to do theme

8:19 parks I'm going to do abandoned

8:21 locations I'm going to do filming

8:22 locations I'm going to do roadside

8:24 attractions I'm going to go to

8:26 conventions all of this I am going to do

8:28 and I'm going to continue this daily

8:31 Vlog as well going on progressing on and

8:35 that's another thing when you do a video

8:38 every single day obviously you're going

8:41 to say something that someone does not

8:42 agree with you're going to slip up

8:44 you're going to say something that

8:46 someone it might offend someone even

8:48 though you do not mean to offend them

8:50 here comes a

8:51 truck right

8:54 here so like I was saying you cannot

8:56 please everyone if you are not not a fan

9:00 of what I am doing and I use the word

9:03 not a fan meaning if you are not a fan

9:05 of the videos I'm doing when it comes to

9:07 following me I do not believe in the

9:09 word fan I believe in the word Kindred

9:11 Spirits friends that I have not met or

9:14 that I have

9:15 met this whole circle of

9:19 goodness and do not misunderstand me

9:22 because there is an overwhelming amount

9:25 of supporters in comparison to the

9:28 negative but remember the analogy I was

9:30 talking about if you were in that garage

9:33 and you had someone every day hounding

9:36 you criticizing you eventually you need

9:40 to let off some let off some steam B it

9:43 that's what I'm doing so that's what

9:44 this Vlog is about it is good to be back

9:46 in Orange County I have a lot on the

9:48 agenda I have a lot of good fun plans

9:51 and those that are sticking around for

9:54 the fun will be very excited to know

9:57 that there's some there's some good

9:59 stuff on on the horizon I have lots of

10:02 things up my

10:04 sleeve and let's face it even the ones

10:06 that do not like what I do that are I

10:10 hate to use the word haters too I hate

10:12 the word haters which people always say

10:14 haters are your motivator motivators I

10:17 do not believe I do not agree with that

10:21 terminology haters are your motivators

10:24 haters never propelled anything that

10:26 I've done in my life I have never had

10:28 someone standing over my shoulder saying

10:31 I can't stand you I can't stand you I

10:34 have never taken that and turned that

10:36 into motivational momentum for me it

10:40 always holds me back I always look at

10:42 the positive the positive people the

10:44 people that are in my corner that say go

10:46 out do it we are behind you out those

10:48 are the people that motivate me whoever

10:51 came up with this phrase haters are my

10:53 motivators I do not agree with that I

10:56 completely rebuke that phrase haters are

10:59 not my motivators my motivators are you

11:01 guys the positive people who are the

11:03 Kindred Spirits those who've always been

11:06 in my corner and I really really really

11:09 appreciate it I'm going to go I got some

11:13 things to do

11:14 today all right I'm going to go I'm

11:16 getting a little bit overwhelmed with

11:17 this whole subject I love you guys and

11:19 I'll see you tomorrow I promise bye

TDW 1165 - YouTube Trolls : Dealing with Haters and Negativity

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